"Advice" and "Answers"

Cool that some pals were feeling my list of “best stuff I ever did to be happy” from the last newsletter. (If you are new, hi, email me and I will send it to you if you care?) Here is a question that one of y’all sent, and some “answers”:
 
 
“… took some actual time to recover after the magazine I worked for, for like six years, folded. I went to g…